Everyone understands and acknowledges the fact that it was derived from a very powerful and hurtful word. However with the excessive use of the word by the people that were affected by it, the word seemed to have lost its meaning over time. True it is still hurtful and inappropriate to use, but the slang meaning of it is mostly what people use it for. I'm sure these people mean no harm by saying it. Regardless, it should not be said.
Danielle Murillo (May 24, 1996 ~ April 21, 2014)
"Nothing lasts forever, at least we got these memories. & if I ever go away, I'll love you always"