trueplayer Wrote:There could be many reasons why he can't take his wife with him, her job, immigration laws, etc.

As it is not only will there be a long and drawn out inquire towards me and why my wife needs to accompany me + i would not want to bring my wife into this environment and have her see me in this kind of light, its hard to explain nor do i think it would be appropriate to do so, its as simple as bringing her here is a bad idea. btw thank you for your input and consideration  ;D now lets get pissed and whack a few golf balls