[Spartacus]

I regard silly and Tea as highly respectable members in this community. I believed that what they both did was in the best interest of the community. That cannot be denied.

Anyway, like Bison said, there is a 'proper' way of highlighting issues.

[SIZE=14px]Never publicize people’s faults:[/SIZE][SIZE=14px] Unless there are valid reasons, when correcting others it is best to keep the interaction private rather making it public. If you do it, that will make the recipient of the advice feel more humiliated and exposed. Again, if your intention is to sincerely help the other person rather than exposing his defects, the affair should be kept private.[/SIZE]

http://www.iqrasense.com/muslim-characte...mning.html

(hope this does not end up as a criticism of religious influences in decision making btw)

But then again, if anyone knows the history between Tea and silly, talking to the person you loathe on a personal level can be a bitter pill to swallow.