I'd say Gonffs was a little bit misunderstood by most of us. Of course he doesn't want his parents dead, but we all have gone through this phase in our lives. We all understand the feeling of great dissappointment followed by some impulsive statement or decision. All you have to do is take a step back from the situation and reflect.
And as Spartacus perfectly said, this is a forum with a wide range of cultures and age groups. It is a good place for anybody to discuss any problem, for I feel this community really looks out for each other.