dude intentional teamflashing is the most annoying shit, especially when they flash you at a crucial moment of the round for no reason other than spite, or some uncommunicable problem they have with you, uncommunicable if you ignored them or they ignored you.
i didn't watch the demos myself but have first hand experience of people teamflashing (off the top of my head, alex, pollard, most memorable instances of them repeatedly teamflashing) but i never took the time to put the videos up on youtube, which, I suggest doing over posting demo links, a youtube video is much easier for anyone to casually inspect then having to set aside the time to dl a demo file, put it in your cstrike folder, launch it up, sit through the whole thing, blah blah blah, plus no ability to rewind, it's really discouraging to anyone to be faced with a demo file.
Not sure what the consequences will be of this scenario you posted about, but I'm interested in the verdict, because I have some clips that are in need of uploading if so.
As your leader i will not force you to give up relationships and play cs instead, that's on you. if i gotta push you to play the game u want to make a living out of, then this shit aint for you.