looks like the two stories of guys(ru and rig) dating much older women/girl did not turn out too well.
'love' as we know it isn't enough to sustain a relationship. if you have to derive the definition of love from songs, then i think you still have much to learn.
I don't mean that I know everything it is to know about it, but I just think its pretty naive if you think that is the solution to everything. Thats my opinion.
But back to topic, yeah maybe 2 years difference shouldn't be that significant.
be the best version of yourself, that's all you can do.