Thank you everyone for your comments.

I understand your point Jesse "- Instead of waiting 40 mins in spec with probably 2-4 other specs, leave and try to make an other pug with said specs." but I have tried this a few times and usually I sit in the server trying to get those specs to join but they don't. Like right now whil'e I type this there are 17 in the other server and none of the specs will join me. 

Thanks Bison, I will think about that donation.